The male "gold digger", as if it is all about women.

Why do we take so much bashing about looking for men with money???? The men are just as bad if not worse.  We just get called cougars.  What the hell is that, a cougar?  In Utah is apparently has more than just the BUY mascot meaning.

I noticed on online dating there is a huge group of men looking for older women with income requirements.  Why am I going to even start a conversation with how much I make.  Why do I want to babysit a man in his 20's?  Why does any woman want to babysit a man?

I agree with men's comments now, about not wanting to raise a girlfriend.  They are sick of the women in bling jeans trying to be a teenager and they can't grow up.

"Right back at ya men!!!"


So this very attractive man winks at me online.  I decide to talk to him.  Right from the beginning I am starting to analyze him and the emails. Pictures are photoshop, cut and paste to events.  Trying to look like a bad ass.  As the emails progress, he obviously has not learned english or is using a translator.

Is it just me or am I looking for every reason why every man is bad?

I find out he wants a green card and wants to take me to meet his mom.

"NO!"

"O HELL NO!"

So let me get this right.  You want a woman who makes over 100K, you want to lie your ass off right from the start and get a green card to the US.  They need add warning labels you can add to these men on match.com.

Yet we get called cougars?  Most women think that is a sex thing, I say no way is being a babysitter, green card provider or raising a boyfriend my idea of LOVE, not even sex.

I saw little willie!!!!

Why is it a man finds out when there is a girls night and there is alcohol involved they ask you if you want to see the penis.  That is not quite what gets women turned on.  It doesn't want me to consider you potential husband material.

Apparently the game is still the same, I just got older.  Then again when I was in school it would have been indecent exposure because they had to pull it out. I remember being in high school and "piercings in special places" being the thing. Men had a thing of showing each other.   I never remembered caring.

As we are drinking and watching, The Rocky Horror Picture Show.  I see a friend of mine with a totally embarrassed grin on the chair across from me.

"This guy just asked if I wanted to see his dick."  Said my not so innocent friend.

I am shaking my head of course, my other friend jumps on it, no pun intended yet! She texts him and he approaches very cautiously.

"Really.." So seductive you could just about hear her thoughts.

Next thing you know!  Bam!!!! The room busts out in little girl laughter for a limp sausage. Or was it a hotlink?  The last time I saw one was in the microwave years ago.  It just didn't do it for me!

Do women wip out their boobs for men as fast as men are showing off sausage?  I think dating is still what it has been since creation.  How fast can the penis puke!!!  Now we just have camera's and sexting.

I am just not sure I am ready to be sending pictures of anything! Who knows, piss the person off enough you might wind up all over Facebook and naked.